RELATIONSHIP MOMENTS: Cheating is a choice not a mistake.

 Cheating is an act of cowardice and it has nothing to do with making mistakes by accident. We've all been cheated on by someone we loved with all our heart, we understand the pain of being broken into pieces and not being able to breathe properly because our world is suddenly falling apart. You know the whole feeling of being a second choice to someone who was your priority. But there's one thing you need to understand as well; you chose them but they chose to cheat on you. So don't you dare think or let them persuade you that cheating on you was just a mistake. And now they realize that they shouldn't have done it.

Cheating is not a mistake. It is an intentional decision. A mistake is a misguided action, something you miscalculated or blundered or was wrong about. You didn't miscalculate or blunder your decision to cheat. You accepted it at that moment. And although it was wrong, it was not miscalculated. The moment you decided to engage in the affair, you crossed the line of being a MISTAKE. You deliberately made the decision to cheat, disrespect the one you love and pursue something you know you shouldn't.

Every action you make is approved by your brain which means you made a decision to make another human being feel miserable by enjoying your moment of happiness. You deliberately, willingly, and consciously decided to destroy everything you had. You deliberately killed their hope. You deliberately broke their heart. And to top of all that, now you probably expect them to forgive you because YOU MADE A MISTAKE. I'm sorry to tell you that love doesn't tolerate mistakes. It's as simple as that. You could have chosen not to hurt them or make mistakes like you claim, but you didn't because you didn't feel the burden of your own decision.

You hurt them because your own wishes and desires were your only priorities and you need to know that these people are not fools who will believe that it was a MISTAKE. Don't let no one fool you. Cheating is never and will never be a MISTAKE. And before you think this is about a particular Gender. Both Gender cheats.