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WILL YOU MARRY YOU?

 This is a common question that you can find on self help inventories. And most times we're asked casually by our friends and family. While so many folks usually have an immediate Yes or No response to this question, the question is more elaborate than it seem to be. There are aspects to this question. Let's break it down into three parts.  WILL YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHO IS IN THE SAME LIFE SITUATION AS YOU? WILL YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHO IS IN THE SAME FINANCIAL SITUATION AS YOU? WILL YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHO HAS THE SAME LIFE ACHIEVEMENTS AS YOU?  From life observations, we all want to marry someone richer, we want to marry someone more advanced in life, we want to marry someone younger. But then, instead of looking for someone who will have all the achievements you want in a partner, why not make yourself that person. I bet your answers to the above questions was NO. No you can't marry someone who is in the same social class as you, and probably your social class isn't so good...